Whew! Let's get this blog started up again, shall we? There is no excuse to my absence (except that I am on Facebook too much) and I have been writing blogs in my head for months (since Luke was born!) Who knows how many stories are lost (such as camping through our first whole Alaskan summer) because of my poor time management or sheer laziness. I'd rather not lose any more, so I will try and not procrastinate. Those of you who are excited for the Snowbunny's return can thank my youngest brother, who is in Basic Training right now in Texas. He has requested letters every day and I thought he might get bored of my same encouraging words day in and day out, so he is going to get a lot of daily happenings instead =) And since I type faster than I write, I will be typing them before I send them, and then conveniently adding them to my blog =) See how that works? Lol.
(Sorry, but pictures may be lacking since they are usually on my big camera which needs to be uploaded to Heath's computer first, then the files need to be edited before they can be posted here which all takes way more time than I seem to have. Maybe one day when Luke starts sleeping through the night in his own bed...hey! A girl can dream...=)
We have been super busy around here lately, as always! The kids had a ski race last weekend at Alyeska so we decided to stay the whole weekend, from Friday till Monday. The kids raced an extremely icy, steep slope on Saturday. It was difficult and not at all ideal conditions, but all our kids tried really hard and raced their best, despite the discouraging terrain. Heath is such a great coach to the little ones. I just love watching him out there being a dad and a coach! =) Hailey and Drew did well, neither of them fell. That was a huge accomplishment, one which many of our kids can not say they had. I am sure Drew was the only 4 year old out there racing and he did really awesome for his age! Hailey's group is rather large, so she had a lot of competition. We encouraged her to focus on a goal for herself after her first run instead of a medal. She ran 49 sec on #1 and set a goal of 45 sec for her 2nd run. She beat it with a 44!! That is amazing to shave 5 secs off a run. We were so very proud of her. We (mom and dad) gave them both gold medals for their efforts. I ordered really cool ski medals so we could give them to the kids since they always work really hard at getting better =)
After the race Hailey and Heath continued skiing (Hailey really wanted to ski from the top of the mountain, which is really high!! Scares mommy, lol =) and Drew and I (and Luke =) headed back to the hotel to hang out. Of course we stopped at the cafe and got some hot chocolate and cookies. One of Drew's very favorite things is getting hot cocoa =) We had dinner at the hotel to save time since the kids were really anxious to get into the pool (which is a saltwater pool, very nice =). Everyone had pizza except me. I had pasta with winter squash and roasted garlic in a parmesan cream sauce. It was pretty good...a recipe I will have to try and duplicate, I think!
The kids were so excited to be at the pool. A lot of the families from the ski team stayed at the resort so it was like one big party at the pool. It was AWESOME! You know how I love parties ;) The kids jumped in with all their friends...it is amazing to see how much their confidence in swimming is boosted just because they are swimming with friends that can swim unassisted. Drew was kicking all around the pool himself hugging a kickboard. Hailey was swimming around with the other kids, and I sent Luke in with Heath while I chatted with some of the parents (and took pictures, of course!! Hey, it's what I do =) It didn't take Luke long to fall asleep, must have been the gentle bouncing in the water =) Then we headed back up to our room to watch the fireworks out over the mountain. Such a cool thing to get to do. We don't see too many fireworks here since it's light all summer. It was really neat to see them out over the snow. Just a great, great day!
The next day we slept in late and took our time getting moving. We had a late breakfast before everyone suited up to go skiing again. This was the 3rd day in a row we were there and EVERY day was bright and sunny!!! How awesome is that?! We have been very lucky this winter to get lots and lots of sunshine!! It certainly makes a difference in you mood! Drew was excited to ski down from the top with Hailey and daddy. He is such a big boy! It is really a cool that he has the confidence to do that! I was going to hang out in the room for a while with Luke and then ride the tram to the top later to meet them for some food. I watched them through our window head to the lift then sat in the window soaking up the sun's rays while Luke napped. It was the most blissful 15 minutes ever! (Then Luke woke up =) It is amazing when you realize all the things you take for granted after you don't have them anymore. Sitting in warm sunshine is definitely one of them for me. I never thought that I wouldn't have that somewhere.
Luke and I spent a couple hours reading and hanging out before heading out and up the tram. I really wanted to see the view from the top of the mountain and boy was it the million dollar view!! It was just beautiful up there!! If you don't ski, you don't usually get to stand at the top of the mountain and look out, so I am really glad they have the tram. Makes me want to learn to ski confidently so when all the kids are older and skiing I won't miss out on the great views from the top! =) We had a late lunch at the restaurant up there and I took a bunch of pictures before saying goodbye and watching them ski down off the end of a cliff (ok, really it was just the trail, but it looked like it dropped right off!! Scared me to death! I kept telling Heath to make sure he kept a close eye on Drew!) Then I took a beautiful (empty) tram ride back down =) Just amazing.
I got back to the room in time (with my coffee and brownie in hand from the cafe ;) to see the last quarter of the Super Bowl. From what I gather, Christina Aguilera completely messed up the National Anthem. Just awful! AND the Black Eyed Peas were the half time show and were even worse. (I YouTubed it later, it was so SO bad!! Made me want to club Fergie with her microphone!) The commercials made me wonder if the companies spent all their money to buy the spot, then decided not to spend any money on the commercial. And whatever football I saw was ok.
The rest of the crew came back, rested for about 2 minutes, then decided, of course, that it was pool time! =) Since we went pretty early, the pool wasn't too crowded, but who cared?! As people filtered in, they were all people we knew (it was military weekend there, military skiis free on Monday, so it wasn't just ski team there, we had lots of friends from base there as well!) I just can't believe how fun it is to have all kinds of people there that you know! I love it! Luke fell asleep on me in the pool this time as the kids splashed around and played. By this time, we had everyone sleeping pretty good at night =) (Lucky for me, since we fed the kids a whole bunch of sugary desserts for dinner right before bed =)
Monday we packed up our stuff and loaded the car, sent the skiiers out to the mountain (it was another beautifully sunny day, how did we get so lucky?!) and Luke and I sat in the lobby hanging out with some of the other moms that weren't skiing and chatting with the people who were skiing as they came in. Again, so fun. It was almost like a retreat. I wish we had more weekends like that =) After a while, the kids came in and wanted to go swimming again, so I convinced Heath to take them. More friends in the pool and more of a good time for all before we packed up and headed home. We got to see the sunset on the way home. On the drive down there, it was night time and there were hundreds of stars out. It was just beautiful! We didn't even get that when we were in the middle of nowhere Australia.
I can't wait until we get to do another weekend like that. Too bad the kids have another race on Saturday, Heath has almost 6 full days off in a row. We would so be out of here!! =)
Snowbunnies In Training
Monday, February 14, 2011
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Memories...and paper
The last couple of days I have been ravenous in my pursuit to rid us of clutter and get down to only the things we will need to take with us. My biggest project: receipts and old bills. We (by we I mean I) have boxes and boxes (and piles and file folders) full of receipts and bills that date back to before Heath and I got our first apt...yep, that means 10 years of paper build up! Ugh...can you believe we have been moving that stuff around with us?! In all my pack ratted-ness I have kept every single bill and receipt, so seriously, boxes! To go along with my anal-retentive crazy compulsiveness, I also have an obsessive need to go through every single one (paper and receipt, not just box) before I toss it out or shred it. I would also like to add that I feel the need to shred every bill or receipt or notice from any company that has an address on it accompanying some sort of account number. These things are 10 years old! Who cares?! Well, I do. Ugh!! While I have paper bags full of bills, receipts, and shredded paper (anyone need any hamster bedding?) I still have lots more to go. At least I have noticed that as I continue I am being more careless with the receipts and just glancing through them...maybe I will really let loose after another box or two and just start grabbing handfuls to toss out without even looking! What a wild Friday night that would be...oh, wait...it's Sunday =)
In the beginning, I was having a fit of nostalgia going through all the early bank statements and receipts. It was a walk down memory lane...oh, I remember that restaurant or when we took that trip, when I went to the pet store to buy the things for our first dog and just random shopping trips. I have (had) a pretty decent memory, so even little things like grocery store receipts and movie stubs can bring back pretty vivid memories of the exact event. These fall into the category of "really hard to throw out because they are like written pictures". It was hard to get rid of the "memories" from our college days, but I can't keep carrying around stuff like that forever. I did notice when going through more recent receipts I do not have this case of nostalgia...it seems to have happened around the time I became a mommy ;) The receipts did not conjure up the same amount of memories. There are some, trip receipts or receipts from Ikea when Tricia and I would spend the day there as if we were in a museum or a zoo! But grocery store receipts, mall receipts, they do nothing for me. So it's easy to toss them out. Thank goodness I take a hundred times more pictures now than I did back then. I can look back on the visuals to jog my memory. I hope that later I don't feel like I threw out too many memories...old receipts really are like a chronological scrapbook of your life, everyday and otherwise. You can see the things that you did day to day, which are the hardest to scrapbook because these are the things you have to make yourself realize the importance of so you can record them. What a brain training exercise it is!
We also have a large pile of no longer needed items growing in the garage in preparation for a yard sale. Seeing as how this stuff is taking up my side of the garage (where my car is usually parked), I can totally see me getting frustrated with having all that junk there and deciding to freecycle it just so I can park my car in the garage again! Free strollers anyone?
In the beginning, I was having a fit of nostalgia going through all the early bank statements and receipts. It was a walk down memory lane...oh, I remember that restaurant or when we took that trip, when I went to the pet store to buy the things for our first dog and just random shopping trips. I have (had) a pretty decent memory, so even little things like grocery store receipts and movie stubs can bring back pretty vivid memories of the exact event. These fall into the category of "really hard to throw out because they are like written pictures". It was hard to get rid of the "memories" from our college days, but I can't keep carrying around stuff like that forever. I did notice when going through more recent receipts I do not have this case of nostalgia...it seems to have happened around the time I became a mommy ;) The receipts did not conjure up the same amount of memories. There are some, trip receipts or receipts from Ikea when Tricia and I would spend the day there as if we were in a museum or a zoo! But grocery store receipts, mall receipts, they do nothing for me. So it's easy to toss them out. Thank goodness I take a hundred times more pictures now than I did back then. I can look back on the visuals to jog my memory. I hope that later I don't feel like I threw out too many memories...old receipts really are like a chronological scrapbook of your life, everyday and otherwise. You can see the things that you did day to day, which are the hardest to scrapbook because these are the things you have to make yourself realize the importance of so you can record them. What a brain training exercise it is!
We also have a large pile of no longer needed items growing in the garage in preparation for a yard sale. Seeing as how this stuff is taking up my side of the garage (where my car is usually parked), I can totally see me getting frustrated with having all that junk there and deciding to freecycle it just so I can park my car in the garage again! Free strollers anyone?
Monday, March 16, 2009
See...
See what happens when you procrastinate! I've had all this stuff I wanted to write swimming around in my head since Thursday and now it's Monday, so of course I can't remember most of it! So unfortunately =( it might just be choppy!
Random things:
When we were on our nature hike last weekend, Drew was walking and said to me, "Mommy, don't bother me, I'm conservating." (concentrating) I found this hilarious since we were on a nature walk =D
Some new parenting philosophies from an "aha" moment I had last week: Adults are really no different than kids. We get frustrated and lash out just like kids do. We may not hit (or do we, be honest with yourselves, parents...) or do the same things they do, but think how often we yell just out of frustration. I started time out with the thought it would be a place for the kids to "cool down", but they don't ever really get worked up enough to need to cool down, so I started using it as a discipline tool =( This bugs me because I don't really think it works. I add the firm reminders with time out when I put them there, I think those reminders are shaping their behavior...the time outs probably just add to their frustration! To change ourselves, as adults, we need constant reminders to act the way we are supposed to and refrain from negative behavior. I am trying to use more a more positive gentle attitude towards the kids...I hate being mean! I know that all the yelling and meanness they have has come from me =/ How awful is that?! Now I just have to spend the time and effort undoing any damage I have done.
(There was another one, but I can NOT remember it!)
Heath has started playing volleyball again. The hospital leagues started playing last week. It is good for him to be playing some sort of sport again! We haven't played volleyball since we were back in college. The kids and I went to his first game to cheer him and the rest of the team on. It was fun, but I wish I was playing too! They had their 3rd game today, so far they have won all of them! Yay!
We finally took a trip to the Virginia Air and Space museum on Saturday! It is free for all military during the month of March, so we took advantage of it! The kids were pretty excited...there are 2 floors, one for airplane/aviation stuff and the 2nd for NASA/space stuff. The first thing Hailey (and Heath) wanted to do was ride in the fighter jet simulator. We stood in line forever watching people get closed up in a box and start spinning around in all different directions. When Hailey and Heath were in there, I could hear her talking to daddy loudly. She asked me when they came out if I heard her telling daddy not to spin them around too much. It was pretty funny. Next we hopped on the rollercoaster simulator. Who ever thought it would be a good idea to lock people in a box, turn off the air, and then start throwing them around is an idiot! I would have been fine if they left the air on, but I might as well have been riding in the back of a van going down some unpaved road, ugh!
The museum was nice, Hailey and Drew were anxious to skip the planes and go upstairs for the space stuff. We walked through a room with large models of planets into a spaceship that took us to Mars. We stepped onto the red planet and started controlling some of their navigators and looking through previously taken pictures. We made a crater on the surface and landed the space shuttle on the return home. I was, of course, doing my usual teaching thing. I tried hard to have them learn something about everything we looked at, but it is hard to turn 2 little ones loose in a museum and expect them to stand there and listen to you when they could be running around pressing buttons! Oh well... A favorite that we got to "perform" twice was a rocket launch sequence that ended with a launch. We even had an audience the 2nd time we did it. Some individual faves of the museum...Hailey liked the rollercoaster ride (she can't wait for Busch Gardens to open up!) Drew liked the life size airplane that you could climb through. They had so much fun looking through the windows and pulling off the seat cushions to use as flotation devices. They even played flight attendants for a while, bringing me more drinks than my bladder could possibly hold on one flight! My favorite was the rocket launch, it was very unique, and Heath said he just liked being there with the kids =)
When we were finished going through the museum we took the kids to the Imax theater there to see Under the Sea in 3d!! I was all for the short educational length video and certainly watching it in 3d to make it more real. I had never seen a 3d movie before, especially in a theater! I will have to say, that was one of the coolest things I have ever EVER seen! I am sure all the people around us in the theater hated me! I kept talking to the kids and pointing things out and then I kept exclaiming to Heath how awesome the movie was! I could not believe how real it was. They had a part where they were going down a river next to some vegetation...I really felt like I was going down the river and I could just reach out and touch it. It was truly amazing. Drew didn't keep his glasses on at all, but liked to swing them around...yippee in a dark theater. I convinced him to put them back on towards the end when they were showing sea lions. He was thrilled, they were so close...one even came right up and "kissed" us. They saw quite a few of the things we learn songs about...weedy sea dragon, lion fish, etc. My favorite part of the movie was being on top of the water, I loved feeling like I was there. I felt like I was snorkeling under the water too, who needs to be in the water to snorkel, ha! (It's nice for those of us who hyperventilate when we snorkel to be able to do it =) I also liked the sea snakes, they were just floating around in the middle of the water. The seals and sharks were cool too. Heath liked the sea snakes and this wave of fish that was feeding off the ocean floor. Drew liked the lion fish and Hailey liked the garden snakes. They all just rise up out of holes in the ground (there are a ton of them all together) and then "dance" with the flow of the water...too cool! They both loved getting kisses from the seals! They are still talking about it!
We decided to branch out that night and head to an Indian restaurant in Norfolk (Rajput). Heath had heard a lot of good things about it, but I am such a food snob...I would rate it as mediocre. Hailey ordered chicken tikka (which was good, I should have ordered the kid plate =) and Drew ordered lamb shuka (that might not be quite right). Heath and I ordered sampler platters...he really liked his. Like I said, mine was mediocre (well, not mine, all of it...I tried a little of everything). I am not one for bland flavor. It's ok, it was an experience. Both Heath and I ordered some chai since it was so cold and rainy out...I was fine for a while, but I am NOT a caffeine drinker even a little bit. I am pretty entertaining after having a cup of caffeine, it didn't hit me until later and then I started getting really talkative and silly, making up stupid jokes and stuff. I thought it was hilarious. I wanted to get on here and write while I was in a funny talkative mood, but it didn't happen =/ Maybe next time ;)
All we did on Sunday was go to Target (in the rain...for maybe the 3rd or 4th day in a row). We were finally getting around to buying the double sit and stand stroller we have been eying forever! We figured we would want it for Disney World, but now I am having 2nd thoughts about taking our new $170 stroller to DW, what if it gets stolen?! Now I am thinking maybe we should get some cheap umbrella type strollers that I wouldn't care if they disappeared. Eek!
Today was art day (as are all Mondays). Hailey is incredibly (unusually) excited for St. Patrick's Day, so was happy to be painting Leprechaun hats, shamrocks, and rainbows today. Drew gets bored with painting pretty fast, he never wants to fill in all the white spots. He did a great job on his rainbow though! Hailey's afternoon drawing class was about repetition. They drew on a card that was folded into 4 sections...they drew the same thing 4 times on each side in different colors (Hailey did ice cream cones on one side and golden retrievers on the other.) I will have to post a picture, they turned out really great!
In the car on the way to class today, Hailey said, "Mommy, I have an idea. If we had a plastic trash bag we could go to the beach and clean up all the trash and help the animals. Isn't that a great idea?!" I thought it was a fabulous idea! Such a cute little girl =) When we were at the air and space museum, they had a wall that you could post answers to their questions. I asked Hailey, "What is something you can do to help the environment?" She said, "recycle". I was surprised to get an answer, much less a real one! My little tree hugger =)
Drew has been having a lot of trouble sleeping this last week...as in going to sleep, not sleeping during the night. Kids really know how to break your heart...when I go in to check on him while he is crying, I calm him down and tell him to go back to sleep. Then he scrunches his sweet little face up and tries not to cry, but can't help it as he squeaks out, "but what if I'm all alone and somebody won't be with me anymore!" It is SO sad, it makes me want to cry! I'm a tough mom, I can handle it, but man! He knows how to pull at my heart strings. I just want to scoop him up and snuggle with him in the rocking chair so he feels safe and secure and knows that I am there. But of course, I can't do that...think of the pattern that will start even if I do it only once! He always asks me, "Mommy, can you sleep with me for a minute?" (meaning, lay on the floor next to my crib until I fall asleep and then I won't notice you leave). I always tell him no, but now he answers with his alone phrase and it kills me! I hate the feeling alone phase, it lasts forever and you feel like crap for not indulging them. Sigh...
Another "parenting" tidbit I was working out today: Live each day as if it is your last...or slightly less morbid, live each day to its fullest. I try to remind myself a lot of what I liked most about my childhood. What are my fondest memories, the things that stick out very vividly in my mind. Then I try to think about what I want them to look back and remember when they are older so I can plan for those things. I want them to remember lots of fun, playing, laughing, loving, hugging, cuddling, and gentle understanding. I, of course, want them to look back and see me as the perfect mom (who wouldn't want that?!) who did nothing but love them and their dad and make their childhood an overflowing cup of beautiful memories. I need to take each day and look at it like that. Make each day full of fun...then I won't have regrets about all the "bad" days we have. I hate that 1 good day to replace x number of bad days. I still feel horrible about the days that aren't as loving as others, the days where we are only trying to get things done. It isn't about the finished product, but the journey. How you get there is what counts, and I need to remember that. Hailey and I had a great time, it was always harmonious when she was little. Drew definitely changed the dynamic, having two kids gave me an attitude adjustment for the worse. Now I need to spend a lot of time and effort getting back on that track!
Thanks for listening to my ramblings...
Random things:
When we were on our nature hike last weekend, Drew was walking and said to me, "Mommy, don't bother me, I'm conservating." (concentrating) I found this hilarious since we were on a nature walk =D
Some new parenting philosophies from an "aha" moment I had last week: Adults are really no different than kids. We get frustrated and lash out just like kids do. We may not hit (or do we, be honest with yourselves, parents...) or do the same things they do, but think how often we yell just out of frustration. I started time out with the thought it would be a place for the kids to "cool down", but they don't ever really get worked up enough to need to cool down, so I started using it as a discipline tool =( This bugs me because I don't really think it works. I add the firm reminders with time out when I put them there, I think those reminders are shaping their behavior...the time outs probably just add to their frustration! To change ourselves, as adults, we need constant reminders to act the way we are supposed to and refrain from negative behavior. I am trying to use more a more positive gentle attitude towards the kids...I hate being mean! I know that all the yelling and meanness they have has come from me =/ How awful is that?! Now I just have to spend the time and effort undoing any damage I have done.
(There was another one, but I can NOT remember it!)
Heath has started playing volleyball again. The hospital leagues started playing last week. It is good for him to be playing some sort of sport again! We haven't played volleyball since we were back in college. The kids and I went to his first game to cheer him and the rest of the team on. It was fun, but I wish I was playing too! They had their 3rd game today, so far they have won all of them! Yay!
We finally took a trip to the Virginia Air and Space museum on Saturday! It is free for all military during the month of March, so we took advantage of it! The kids were pretty excited...there are 2 floors, one for airplane/aviation stuff and the 2nd for NASA/space stuff. The first thing Hailey (and Heath) wanted to do was ride in the fighter jet simulator. We stood in line forever watching people get closed up in a box and start spinning around in all different directions. When Hailey and Heath were in there, I could hear her talking to daddy loudly. She asked me when they came out if I heard her telling daddy not to spin them around too much. It was pretty funny. Next we hopped on the rollercoaster simulator. Who ever thought it would be a good idea to lock people in a box, turn off the air, and then start throwing them around is an idiot! I would have been fine if they left the air on, but I might as well have been riding in the back of a van going down some unpaved road, ugh!
The museum was nice, Hailey and Drew were anxious to skip the planes and go upstairs for the space stuff. We walked through a room with large models of planets into a spaceship that took us to Mars. We stepped onto the red planet and started controlling some of their navigators and looking through previously taken pictures. We made a crater on the surface and landed the space shuttle on the return home. I was, of course, doing my usual teaching thing. I tried hard to have them learn something about everything we looked at, but it is hard to turn 2 little ones loose in a museum and expect them to stand there and listen to you when they could be running around pressing buttons! Oh well... A favorite that we got to "perform" twice was a rocket launch sequence that ended with a launch. We even had an audience the 2nd time we did it. Some individual faves of the museum...Hailey liked the rollercoaster ride (she can't wait for Busch Gardens to open up!) Drew liked the life size airplane that you could climb through. They had so much fun looking through the windows and pulling off the seat cushions to use as flotation devices. They even played flight attendants for a while, bringing me more drinks than my bladder could possibly hold on one flight! My favorite was the rocket launch, it was very unique, and Heath said he just liked being there with the kids =)
When we were finished going through the museum we took the kids to the Imax theater there to see Under the Sea in 3d!! I was all for the short educational length video and certainly watching it in 3d to make it more real. I had never seen a 3d movie before, especially in a theater! I will have to say, that was one of the coolest things I have ever EVER seen! I am sure all the people around us in the theater hated me! I kept talking to the kids and pointing things out and then I kept exclaiming to Heath how awesome the movie was! I could not believe how real it was. They had a part where they were going down a river next to some vegetation...I really felt like I was going down the river and I could just reach out and touch it. It was truly amazing. Drew didn't keep his glasses on at all, but liked to swing them around...yippee in a dark theater. I convinced him to put them back on towards the end when they were showing sea lions. He was thrilled, they were so close...one even came right up and "kissed" us. They saw quite a few of the things we learn songs about...weedy sea dragon, lion fish, etc. My favorite part of the movie was being on top of the water, I loved feeling like I was there. I felt like I was snorkeling under the water too, who needs to be in the water to snorkel, ha! (It's nice for those of us who hyperventilate when we snorkel to be able to do it =) I also liked the sea snakes, they were just floating around in the middle of the water. The seals and sharks were cool too. Heath liked the sea snakes and this wave of fish that was feeding off the ocean floor. Drew liked the lion fish and Hailey liked the garden snakes. They all just rise up out of holes in the ground (there are a ton of them all together) and then "dance" with the flow of the water...too cool! They both loved getting kisses from the seals! They are still talking about it!
We decided to branch out that night and head to an Indian restaurant in Norfolk (Rajput). Heath had heard a lot of good things about it, but I am such a food snob...I would rate it as mediocre. Hailey ordered chicken tikka (which was good, I should have ordered the kid plate =) and Drew ordered lamb shuka (that might not be quite right). Heath and I ordered sampler platters...he really liked his. Like I said, mine was mediocre (well, not mine, all of it...I tried a little of everything). I am not one for bland flavor. It's ok, it was an experience. Both Heath and I ordered some chai since it was so cold and rainy out...I was fine for a while, but I am NOT a caffeine drinker even a little bit. I am pretty entertaining after having a cup of caffeine, it didn't hit me until later and then I started getting really talkative and silly, making up stupid jokes and stuff. I thought it was hilarious. I wanted to get on here and write while I was in a funny talkative mood, but it didn't happen =/ Maybe next time ;)
All we did on Sunday was go to Target (in the rain...for maybe the 3rd or 4th day in a row). We were finally getting around to buying the double sit and stand stroller we have been eying forever! We figured we would want it for Disney World, but now I am having 2nd thoughts about taking our new $170 stroller to DW, what if it gets stolen?! Now I am thinking maybe we should get some cheap umbrella type strollers that I wouldn't care if they disappeared. Eek!
Today was art day (as are all Mondays). Hailey is incredibly (unusually) excited for St. Patrick's Day, so was happy to be painting Leprechaun hats, shamrocks, and rainbows today. Drew gets bored with painting pretty fast, he never wants to fill in all the white spots. He did a great job on his rainbow though! Hailey's afternoon drawing class was about repetition. They drew on a card that was folded into 4 sections...they drew the same thing 4 times on each side in different colors (Hailey did ice cream cones on one side and golden retrievers on the other.) I will have to post a picture, they turned out really great!
In the car on the way to class today, Hailey said, "Mommy, I have an idea. If we had a plastic trash bag we could go to the beach and clean up all the trash and help the animals. Isn't that a great idea?!" I thought it was a fabulous idea! Such a cute little girl =) When we were at the air and space museum, they had a wall that you could post answers to their questions. I asked Hailey, "What is something you can do to help the environment?" She said, "recycle". I was surprised to get an answer, much less a real one! My little tree hugger =)
Drew has been having a lot of trouble sleeping this last week...as in going to sleep, not sleeping during the night. Kids really know how to break your heart...when I go in to check on him while he is crying, I calm him down and tell him to go back to sleep. Then he scrunches his sweet little face up and tries not to cry, but can't help it as he squeaks out, "but what if I'm all alone and somebody won't be with me anymore!" It is SO sad, it makes me want to cry! I'm a tough mom, I can handle it, but man! He knows how to pull at my heart strings. I just want to scoop him up and snuggle with him in the rocking chair so he feels safe and secure and knows that I am there. But of course, I can't do that...think of the pattern that will start even if I do it only once! He always asks me, "Mommy, can you sleep with me for a minute?" (meaning, lay on the floor next to my crib until I fall asleep and then I won't notice you leave). I always tell him no, but now he answers with his alone phrase and it kills me! I hate the feeling alone phase, it lasts forever and you feel like crap for not indulging them. Sigh...
Another "parenting" tidbit I was working out today: Live each day as if it is your last...or slightly less morbid, live each day to its fullest. I try to remind myself a lot of what I liked most about my childhood. What are my fondest memories, the things that stick out very vividly in my mind. Then I try to think about what I want them to look back and remember when they are older so I can plan for those things. I want them to remember lots of fun, playing, laughing, loving, hugging, cuddling, and gentle understanding. I, of course, want them to look back and see me as the perfect mom (who wouldn't want that?!) who did nothing but love them and their dad and make their childhood an overflowing cup of beautiful memories. I need to take each day and look at it like that. Make each day full of fun...then I won't have regrets about all the "bad" days we have. I hate that 1 good day to replace x number of bad days. I still feel horrible about the days that aren't as loving as others, the days where we are only trying to get things done. It isn't about the finished product, but the journey. How you get there is what counts, and I need to remember that. Hailey and I had a great time, it was always harmonious when she was little. Drew definitely changed the dynamic, having two kids gave me an attitude adjustment for the worse. Now I need to spend a lot of time and effort getting back on that track!
Thanks for listening to my ramblings...
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
American Idol
Ok, so I don't watch American Idol, but if you do..I thought I would suggest that you read my girlfriend, Lydia's, AI recaps. They are hilarious. I actually watched 2 of the contestants tonight, so I had a bit of an idea what she was talking about, but seriously...I read them because they are so funny. There is lots of laughing out loud (and snorting =) while I browse her newest recap.
American Idol Recaps
American Idol Recaps
Love Languages
My girlfriend, Amy, has been reading this book about love languages. The idea is that every one craves a certain kind of attention and if the get it, their "love tank: is being filled. There are five "languages": gift giving, touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, and quality time. Quite often people feel empty because they aren't getting the right kind of affection. People usually speak their own language instead of realizing what the other person wants. I guess you are lucky if you both happen to like the same things! Heath and I were trying to figure out what ours were, but it was hard. I couldn't come up with one over the other that made me feel more loved, so I started thinking about how I make other people feel loved. The housework and cooking and "doing" things for people usually make me feel like I am loving them, so I guess mine would be acts of service. Heath thinks his is too, but I still don't feel a strong pull towards one or the other. "When your spouse's emotional love tank is full and he feels secure in your love, the whole world looks right and your spouse will move out to reach his highest potential in life. But when the love tank is empty and he feels used but not loved, the whole world looks dark and he will likely never reach his potential for good in the world." He also says that if a person has a hard time identifying their main love languages, they've either been on empty for so long and are out of touch with their needs, or they have been so filled up by their spouse, that all 5 languages tend to speak to them equally. So, I guess in my case, I am pretty filled up =)
Amy and I were also thinking that this would apply to anybody, not just your spouse. You could use this method to make anyone happy...including your children! We have been working on figuring out the kids' languages. Either I am not very good at this or they suffer from the same problem I do, because I couldn't come up with a distinct one! So for now, I am going to work on filling their "love tank" in all areas (I don't think it will be much work though, instinctively, I am pretty sure I already try to fill all these areas of their life!) and hopefully that will help them grow to be healthy, happy people.
Amy and I were also thinking that this would apply to anybody, not just your spouse. You could use this method to make anyone happy...including your children! We have been working on figuring out the kids' languages. Either I am not very good at this or they suffer from the same problem I do, because I couldn't come up with a distinct one! So for now, I am going to work on filling their "love tank" in all areas (I don't think it will be much work though, instinctively, I am pretty sure I already try to fill all these areas of their life!) and hopefully that will help them grow to be healthy, happy people.
Mother's Love
I have been thinking for a while now how my blogs are really just an account of the happenings in our family...which is great, but since I never have time to scrapbook, I originally wanted to add all the scrapbook journal type things here too. In the couple years that I have done this, the real "feeling" type blogs are lacking. I want to remember how much I love my little ones and "how" I love them as they are growing. So, as I sit here with my precious little boy next to me trying to feed me pizza he has made for me and asking me to fix a necklace he has just broken so he can wear it...and now he is getting out the Hi Ho Cherry-O game to dump all over my bedroom floor =) I am going to attempt to get some coherent, loving thoughts down about my sweet children.
I often have to stop in the middle of the day to remind myself to do more than just go through the motions. As we are running from class to class, doing errands, teaching school, or other household chores I seem to forget to just have fun with the kids. I try as much as I can to stop and look at what they are doing...to admire their reactions to the world around them and to be thankful they are in my life. I have to try hard to remember that we are homeschooling so we can have fun and be together, but as any other "task" in life, you start to see it as routine and just something else you need to complete. That is probably the hardest thing about homeschooling, to remember to enjoy what you are doing, to do it for fun, not to rush through it so you can move onto something else. I have to make signs as reminders and post them around high-traffic areas in the house. =)
I get a lot of little reminders from the kids throughout the day too. It is usually when Hailey comes up to me and shows me a drawing of her riding her bike or doing something else she loves and it is adorable how excited she is about her drawing! She loves to explain all the different things she has drawn in the picture and I LOVE to see how her mind perceives things! One of my favorite things is to watch Drew while he is drawing with Hailey. He tries so hard to do the things that she does. He will draw some circles on a paper and then his eyes light up and he exclaims, "An 'O'!" I give him a huge smile and tell him what a great job! The look of accomplishment on his face is priceless!
I love my kids so much...just love them to pieces! I never knew you could love anyone as much as I love my family, and I thank God for giving me the capacity to love that much.
I often have to stop in the middle of the day to remind myself to do more than just go through the motions. As we are running from class to class, doing errands, teaching school, or other household chores I seem to forget to just have fun with the kids. I try as much as I can to stop and look at what they are doing...to admire their reactions to the world around them and to be thankful they are in my life. I have to try hard to remember that we are homeschooling so we can have fun and be together, but as any other "task" in life, you start to see it as routine and just something else you need to complete. That is probably the hardest thing about homeschooling, to remember to enjoy what you are doing, to do it for fun, not to rush through it so you can move onto something else. I have to make signs as reminders and post them around high-traffic areas in the house. =)
I get a lot of little reminders from the kids throughout the day too. It is usually when Hailey comes up to me and shows me a drawing of her riding her bike or doing something else she loves and it is adorable how excited she is about her drawing! She loves to explain all the different things she has drawn in the picture and I LOVE to see how her mind perceives things! One of my favorite things is to watch Drew while he is drawing with Hailey. He tries so hard to do the things that she does. He will draw some circles on a paper and then his eyes light up and he exclaims, "An 'O'!" I give him a huge smile and tell him what a great job! The look of accomplishment on his face is priceless!
I love my kids so much...just love them to pieces! I never knew you could love anyone as much as I love my family, and I thank God for giving me the capacity to love that much.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Great Weather
I have had so much to write about (at least I feel like I do) over the last few days and I just never seemed to be able to get to it. Part of it is because of Daylight Savings Time, which I hate! I won't say that I hate it in October when I gain an hour! Who doesn't need more time? But I do not like losing an hour later, it stinks...
We started out the weekend on Friday with beautiful weather. We headed to the beach for our second science class. (The library we were doing it at is across the street from the beach). The "scientist" had a line marked with the "to scale" distances for the planets and then balls that showed the sizes. (We did something similar to this when we did the planets at the beginning of the year.) The kids had fun "learning" about the planets. Yes, I put that in quotes for a reason...this class was supposed to be an hour long, but ours ended after a half hour. She would start to talk about something with the kids, one of the planets, gravity, the Earth's rotation, etc. and the kids would finish her sentences for her. They already knew all about that stuff! How great is that...I love homeschooling. I also love the groups that we have here, it is wonderful being around other people who take as much interest in their children's education as I do. It is wonderful to see their kids and how much knowledge they have on subjects that most kindergartners don't have. Hailey got to use her gravity knowledge in class. =) When they were discussing the model of the sun with the earth and moon that rotate around it, they were also talking about why the moon shines if the sun is the only thing giving off light. Hailey raised her hand (which, in itself, is amazing to me!) and said, "It's because the sun reflects light off of the moon." Of course, I was a beaming mother! The fact that my five year old knew the sun reflected off the moon is just too much. Ok, I am bragging a little, but mostly...when we read this years from now, I want to remember how proud I was of her for knowing little things like that!
The line of planets...
The kids checking out the "planets" (Hailey is there...behind the kid in the plaid)
We decided against camping since I wasn't feeling that great and just picked one day to go hiking. We spent all day Saturday cleaning - I cleaned out the upstairs and Heath had the kids out front with him and was working on the vehicles. It was glorious being able to clean without kids running around! I will have to say though, for the hours I spent cleaning, I am rather disappointed in the amount I got done. I thought, surely, I would be able to clean the whole house in this amount of time. Not even close! Oh well. The kids were very excited to go hiking on Sunday...we took them out to First Landing State Park, which is at the beach...I love being able to hike at the beach =) (I am realizing more and more just how much I don't want to leave this area =( We are spoiled here, SO many family activities and festivals, I LOVE it!) The two trails we decided to do were actually through the marshy area of the forest...we thought there would be a lot of interesting things to "study" and we could take advantage of it being only March...so there are no bugs or mosquitoes out yet! We had a fabulous 4 and 1/2 mile nature hike. We strolled along at the kids' pace (yes, we made them walk the whole way =). We pointed out all kinds of things (mostly, the importance of paying attention so you don't miss things). We saw the rare chicken turtle sunning on a log in the marsh (actually 4 of them). They only live in this area of Seashore Park. We spied a lot of salamanders running through the leaves (they were hard to spot!), which, of course, means we took the opportunity to teach the kids about amphibians. (This was daddy's favorite part of the hike). Drew's favorite part was finding spiders...also hard to see. The ground was covered in leaves and pine needles, so you really had to just stop and look to find things. Hailey loved all the spanish moss hanging from the trees and I loved how so much of the marshy water looked like rainbows later in the afternoon (another teaching opportunity too! =) Everyone loved the intermittent bridges through areas that normally we would be wading through. It reminded me very much of the swamps in movies...just waiting for an alligator to jump out at you any second! I love the peacefulness of hiking, so we stopped to listen quietly a lot. The kids soon grew to love this as they were hearing birds and woodpeckers off in the distance. Heath and Hailey stopped a lot to count rings on fallen trees and Drew just couldn't pick up enough pine cones. I only had to carry Drew the last mile, they really were troopers.
Having a picnic lunch
Helping daddy wash the car
Ready to go hiking at First Landing
Looking at the turtles sunning
It seems that everyone had brought their dog to the park that day...and except for the couple little ones we saw, they were all labs or golden retrievers! These are the 2 dogs we are debating against. I want the GR. Go figure, the hairiest one! I told Heath that I wanted to "test drive" our friend's dog to see if I could stand the hair. He doesn't think that is a great idea. (What does he know! =) I don't know, I am going to try and stop worrying about it for a while...it is not something that is going to happen soon. The kids loved to stop and ask the owners all about the dogs. They are so cute! Both of them would walk over to someone (or ask as they were passing by) and say "I like your dog." Then they would ask what kind it is, boy or girl, and what the name was. I think it is so cute how they "chat" with people. They are getting better at it! I am so happy that Drew has a great example to follow after, he would definitely not be like that on his own!
We got home, surprisingly, feeling like we had been ahead of the game. We still had a couple hours before the kids were off to bed, so I went up to our room and read a little. It was what I call one of my "perfect scenarios". These usually have to do with the weather and everything clicking into just the right place. It's kind of like a combination lock and when all the notches are lined up, it unlocks this peaceful sereneness in me. We had the windows open, so I had the fresh air blowing through the room, plus the fan for a breeze (plus the noise of the fan-this reminds me of Twister in that scene right before the tornado hits Wakita and aunt Meg is watching the news...yes! I know I am weird!). The neighborhood was also pretty quiet (which is rare)...it was just perfect! I relished the 10-20 minutes of (almost) total quiet I had to just sit there and read =) (Yes, I do have quite a few of these "scenarios" that I can just tell when everything clicks just right...so what? =p ) The one thing I did like about DST is that it was still light out at 7 o'clock. I told Heath that we should start a ritual when DST ends by bbqing that night. It would mark the start of the time when I can actually see what I am cooking on the grill at dinnertime so I don't burn it (like I did the night before =)
Today was art class day. We must have exhausted the children yesterday, because they slept for almost 14 hours last night! You would think this means they were little angels today...HA! Hailey was great, but Drew was taken over by demons early this morning. (I don't like using that word, but all day I just kept thinking "exorcist"). He gets cranky in the afternoon, but it is rare that he is bad in the morning. He was grumpy with me even in art class when we were painting. The kids were making a scene with a bear walking through the woods. He had just woken up from hibernation and was looking for food and water =) I took the kids home with the promise of a playground after lunch hanging in the air (on our last perfect day =( You think this would keep them in check!) Drew started right away, he was doing a lot of screaming. I finally just told him he needed a nap and took him upstairs. Oh, the hyperventilating. After a long struggle (and me sleeping on the floor) he took a nap, and woke up his normal self. What the heck?! We took Hailey to her drawing class. Today they were making a "Running Man". It was a stick figure that they traced the contours with marker until they covered the whole page. It was pretty cool. Drew and I hung out in the hallway playing a little alphabet game I made up. I brought ABC flashcards with us and put about half of them on the floor. I also brought a bunch of his cars with us and then I would tell him to drive one of the cars and park it on the letter "_". It kept him occupied the whole 45 minutes! I was impressed! When I put the letters out, I would show him the letter and tell him the name, I would sometimes trace it with my finger to explain it's "features". I noticed that whether I traced the letter or not, he liked to trace it with his finger. For some reason, I was amazed by this. Hailey never did that. I am so curious to see how differently Drew will learn from Hailey. I notice so many different things between then two of them! I am pretty sure that Hailey learns well with all the methods of teaching (auditory, visual, and kinesthetic), but I don't know about Drew yet. I would guess he will probably be more kinesthetic. I'm not sure, but I am anxious to find out. Children's minds are amazing to me...I love watching how they work!
Drew's "Brown Bear"...he still had a lot of snow on him=)
Hailey's running man
After class I took the kids to the "tire swing playground". Oh, they were so happy! We played until about 7 o'clock before heading home for dinner and bed. I am glad that I didn't have to disappoint them completely today. They had a great time running around and playing. Ahh, the joys in life =)
We also spent a lot of time talking about Jesus today. I was teaching them "This little light of mine" earlier today, and I even introduced the second verse (won't let satan blow it out...) I have been debating for a while now whether (or how much) I should explain about "the bad guy". So I finally did it...it went "well". (haha) They seem to understand at least...then Drew started acting like that when we got home...any guesses? =) Later, I forget exactly how we got on the subject, we were talking about why we celebrated Easter. Well, this brings up interesting questions in the mind of a little person...he died and then came back to life?! Yeah, well...that went pretty well too! I sat down and was reading them the Bible stories of this and they were fascinated. Hailey just wanted to keep hearing more. I think this is the first time I have sat down to read passages from the actual Bible to them (and not just edited story versions) - how sad is that! I could feel God with me all day...I even dealt with Drew earlier in a very calm, loving manner...and there is only one being that could help me do that! Thank you, Lord, for giving me the strength to be patient and loving with my children!
We started out the weekend on Friday with beautiful weather. We headed to the beach for our second science class. (The library we were doing it at is across the street from the beach). The "scientist" had a line marked with the "to scale" distances for the planets and then balls that showed the sizes. (We did something similar to this when we did the planets at the beginning of the year.) The kids had fun "learning" about the planets. Yes, I put that in quotes for a reason...this class was supposed to be an hour long, but ours ended after a half hour. She would start to talk about something with the kids, one of the planets, gravity, the Earth's rotation, etc. and the kids would finish her sentences for her. They already knew all about that stuff! How great is that...I love homeschooling. I also love the groups that we have here, it is wonderful being around other people who take as much interest in their children's education as I do. It is wonderful to see their kids and how much knowledge they have on subjects that most kindergartners don't have. Hailey got to use her gravity knowledge in class. =) When they were discussing the model of the sun with the earth and moon that rotate around it, they were also talking about why the moon shines if the sun is the only thing giving off light. Hailey raised her hand (which, in itself, is amazing to me!) and said, "It's because the sun reflects light off of the moon." Of course, I was a beaming mother! The fact that my five year old knew the sun reflected off the moon is just too much. Ok, I am bragging a little, but mostly...when we read this years from now, I want to remember how proud I was of her for knowing little things like that!
The line of planets...
The kids checking out the "planets" (Hailey is there...behind the kid in the plaid)
We decided against camping since I wasn't feeling that great and just picked one day to go hiking. We spent all day Saturday cleaning - I cleaned out the upstairs and Heath had the kids out front with him and was working on the vehicles. It was glorious being able to clean without kids running around! I will have to say though, for the hours I spent cleaning, I am rather disappointed in the amount I got done. I thought, surely, I would be able to clean the whole house in this amount of time. Not even close! Oh well. The kids were very excited to go hiking on Sunday...we took them out to First Landing State Park, which is at the beach...I love being able to hike at the beach =) (I am realizing more and more just how much I don't want to leave this area =( We are spoiled here, SO many family activities and festivals, I LOVE it!) The two trails we decided to do were actually through the marshy area of the forest...we thought there would be a lot of interesting things to "study" and we could take advantage of it being only March...so there are no bugs or mosquitoes out yet! We had a fabulous 4 and 1/2 mile nature hike. We strolled along at the kids' pace (yes, we made them walk the whole way =). We pointed out all kinds of things (mostly, the importance of paying attention so you don't miss things). We saw the rare chicken turtle sunning on a log in the marsh (actually 4 of them). They only live in this area of Seashore Park. We spied a lot of salamanders running through the leaves (they were hard to spot!), which, of course, means we took the opportunity to teach the kids about amphibians. (This was daddy's favorite part of the hike). Drew's favorite part was finding spiders...also hard to see. The ground was covered in leaves and pine needles, so you really had to just stop and look to find things. Hailey loved all the spanish moss hanging from the trees and I loved how so much of the marshy water looked like rainbows later in the afternoon (another teaching opportunity too! =) Everyone loved the intermittent bridges through areas that normally we would be wading through. It reminded me very much of the swamps in movies...just waiting for an alligator to jump out at you any second! I love the peacefulness of hiking, so we stopped to listen quietly a lot. The kids soon grew to love this as they were hearing birds and woodpeckers off in the distance. Heath and Hailey stopped a lot to count rings on fallen trees and Drew just couldn't pick up enough pine cones. I only had to carry Drew the last mile, they really were troopers.
Having a picnic lunch
Helping daddy wash the car
Ready to go hiking at First Landing
Looking at the turtles sunning
It seems that everyone had brought their dog to the park that day...and except for the couple little ones we saw, they were all labs or golden retrievers! These are the 2 dogs we are debating against. I want the GR. Go figure, the hairiest one! I told Heath that I wanted to "test drive" our friend's dog to see if I could stand the hair. He doesn't think that is a great idea. (What does he know! =) I don't know, I am going to try and stop worrying about it for a while...it is not something that is going to happen soon. The kids loved to stop and ask the owners all about the dogs. They are so cute! Both of them would walk over to someone (or ask as they were passing by) and say "I like your dog." Then they would ask what kind it is, boy or girl, and what the name was. I think it is so cute how they "chat" with people. They are getting better at it! I am so happy that Drew has a great example to follow after, he would definitely not be like that on his own!
We got home, surprisingly, feeling like we had been ahead of the game. We still had a couple hours before the kids were off to bed, so I went up to our room and read a little. It was what I call one of my "perfect scenarios". These usually have to do with the weather and everything clicking into just the right place. It's kind of like a combination lock and when all the notches are lined up, it unlocks this peaceful sereneness in me. We had the windows open, so I had the fresh air blowing through the room, plus the fan for a breeze (plus the noise of the fan-this reminds me of Twister in that scene right before the tornado hits Wakita and aunt Meg is watching the news...yes! I know I am weird!). The neighborhood was also pretty quiet (which is rare)...it was just perfect! I relished the 10-20 minutes of (almost) total quiet I had to just sit there and read =) (Yes, I do have quite a few of these "scenarios" that I can just tell when everything clicks just right...so what? =p ) The one thing I did like about DST is that it was still light out at 7 o'clock. I told Heath that we should start a ritual when DST ends by bbqing that night. It would mark the start of the time when I can actually see what I am cooking on the grill at dinnertime so I don't burn it (like I did the night before =)
Today was art class day. We must have exhausted the children yesterday, because they slept for almost 14 hours last night! You would think this means they were little angels today...HA! Hailey was great, but Drew was taken over by demons early this morning. (I don't like using that word, but all day I just kept thinking "exorcist"). He gets cranky in the afternoon, but it is rare that he is bad in the morning. He was grumpy with me even in art class when we were painting. The kids were making a scene with a bear walking through the woods. He had just woken up from hibernation and was looking for food and water =) I took the kids home with the promise of a playground after lunch hanging in the air (on our last perfect day =( You think this would keep them in check!) Drew started right away, he was doing a lot of screaming. I finally just told him he needed a nap and took him upstairs. Oh, the hyperventilating. After a long struggle (and me sleeping on the floor) he took a nap, and woke up his normal self. What the heck?! We took Hailey to her drawing class. Today they were making a "Running Man". It was a stick figure that they traced the contours with marker until they covered the whole page. It was pretty cool. Drew and I hung out in the hallway playing a little alphabet game I made up. I brought ABC flashcards with us and put about half of them on the floor. I also brought a bunch of his cars with us and then I would tell him to drive one of the cars and park it on the letter "_". It kept him occupied the whole 45 minutes! I was impressed! When I put the letters out, I would show him the letter and tell him the name, I would sometimes trace it with my finger to explain it's "features". I noticed that whether I traced the letter or not, he liked to trace it with his finger. For some reason, I was amazed by this. Hailey never did that. I am so curious to see how differently Drew will learn from Hailey. I notice so many different things between then two of them! I am pretty sure that Hailey learns well with all the methods of teaching (auditory, visual, and kinesthetic), but I don't know about Drew yet. I would guess he will probably be more kinesthetic. I'm not sure, but I am anxious to find out. Children's minds are amazing to me...I love watching how they work!
Drew's "Brown Bear"...he still had a lot of snow on him=)
Hailey's running man
After class I took the kids to the "tire swing playground". Oh, they were so happy! We played until about 7 o'clock before heading home for dinner and bed. I am glad that I didn't have to disappoint them completely today. They had a great time running around and playing. Ahh, the joys in life =)
We also spent a lot of time talking about Jesus today. I was teaching them "This little light of mine" earlier today, and I even introduced the second verse (won't let satan blow it out...) I have been debating for a while now whether (or how much) I should explain about "the bad guy". So I finally did it...it went "well". (haha) They seem to understand at least...then Drew started acting like that when we got home...any guesses? =) Later, I forget exactly how we got on the subject, we were talking about why we celebrated Easter. Well, this brings up interesting questions in the mind of a little person...he died and then came back to life?! Yeah, well...that went pretty well too! I sat down and was reading them the Bible stories of this and they were fascinated. Hailey just wanted to keep hearing more. I think this is the first time I have sat down to read passages from the actual Bible to them (and not just edited story versions) - how sad is that! I could feel God with me all day...I even dealt with Drew earlier in a very calm, loving manner...and there is only one being that could help me do that! Thank you, Lord, for giving me the strength to be patient and loving with my children!
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